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Wed 4 Apr 2018 - 17:47
Fortunately, I was just referring to the link time restrictions. Should I write a separate intro post and put them and the super long version in that?

I actually wasn't curious about the hardline policy on the minor-adult since it's actually spelled out quite well and in the site rules and the little blurb you agree to when you sign up. I also get why you say it can be unfair, but sadly what is nessecary isn't always what is fair. It's the difference between allowing a hugely beneficial place like this to exist, vs it being branded illegal.

As I wrangle some time, I'll get reading and participating in the other threads. Thanks again for accepting me Smile
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Wed 4 Apr 2018 - 18:04
Glad to have you, CC!

Up to you whether you'd like to post the super-long version of your story. If so, a post in Your Story would be fine. If you're looking for advice, either General Discussion or Non-GSA would be best to ask for it.

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Wed 4 Apr 2018 - 23:03
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Welcome to KS, UN is quite right, you'll fit in quite well here. External links are allowed, and the 7 day prohibition on external links for newbies has now been removed, so feel free to post them in this thread.

You're in a good position to be able to support your kids and be a true ally to them, since you've both experienced consanguinamory yourself and you've observed a loving consang relationship between your parents. This can sometimes run in families, so we aren't sure whether there is a genetic component to this aspect of our sexuality, but it does support that theory without it actually being proof. There are many unanswered questions, some of which can only be resolved by serious scientific research, and in the current climate that doesn't seem to be likely.

I'd also recommend you showing your kids this place, they might want to join and be in this educational and supportive environment. It can be lonely for consang couples out there, it's nice for people to know that they don't have to be on their own.
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Thu 5 Apr 2018 - 2:41
Welcome aboard! I'm so happy that you are supportive of your grown consanguinamorous children.

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Hi everyone, i'm a male (20) and I have had a flirtatious and slightly sexual relationship with my mom (47) (no actual sexual contact), and it seems to be escalating. I'm glad I found you guys!










(To the mods: tried to sign up a while ago, something went wrong and I couldn't log in with that account so I made a new one. The previous account is registered if i remember correctly)

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Thu 5 Apr 2018 - 3:40
Hi, htt888h,

Welcome to Kindred Spirits! I’ve upgraded your membership.

It sounds like you’re interested in going further with your mom. Is that correct? We have a number of moms and sons on the forum who I’m sure would be glad to talk to you once they get to know you better.

Please take a few minutes to read over the forum rules, then feel free to browse and share as you like.

Do you remember your old forum name?

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Thu 5 Apr 2018 - 3:50
I'm definitely considering it, however there are a few factors that complicate things. Sorry, don't remember the previous username. This place seems like a great resource, glad to be a member!
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Thu 5 Apr 2018 - 3:59
Maybe you’d like to post and let us know the details, including the complicating factors. Non-GSA would be a good place for that if you’d like.

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Thu 5 Apr 2018 - 12:22
Welcome aboard! I hope we can help you sort things out one way or the other.

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Thu 5 Apr 2018 - 22:14
Welcome to KS Smile
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Ok (phew..) here goes. :-)
It is not easy to open up like this to a new community, so I hope to be welcomed and to get lots of understanding from you guys.

I have had some trouble with my own emotions, feelings of rejection and difficulty with trust during my upbringing. Basically I had difficult accepting my own feelings towards family members and some experiences I had. So hopefully I have found the right community here to deal with it. That would be absolutely wonderfull…

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Tue 17 Apr 2018 - 18:01
Hi, mysecretlove,

Welcome to Kindred Spirits. You are welcome here and I hope you will feel accepted. Please go at whatever speed you feel comfortable with.

There is one forum rule that I'll have to observe to upgrade your membership. Can you please confirm that the experiences you had did not include situations in which an adult was interacting with a minor (under 18)?

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Tue 17 Apr 2018 - 18:17
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That is right.
The experiences I am refering to did not involve adults interracting with a minor.
Everyone was over 18.
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Tue 17 Apr 2018 - 19:24
Thank you for confirming that, mysecretlove. I've upgraded your membership. If you would like to talk about what's going on in your life, I'd suggest you post in either the Non-GSA or Your Story forum. No hurry if you'd like to look around first.

Hope you enjoy it here!

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Tue 17 Apr 2018 - 22:35
Welcome aboard, you've come to the right place. Hopefully we will be able to help you to understand your feelings, and no longer feel guilty about them. This is a place for mutual support and understanding.
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Welcome aboard mysecretlove. I hope you find this forum a welcoming and friendly place where you can share when you are ready to do so.
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Wed 18 Apr 2018 - 6:33
Welcome!

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Mon 23 Apr 2018 - 20:37
Hi everyone,
I'm Lisa, a 42 y.o. female. Very glad to find this site as I have recently started to have feelings for a nephew and the thoughts/feelings are new to me. I hope to hear positive thoughts and/or suggestions from others who have experienced and dealt with these feelings before - and just learn!
Thank you!
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Mon 23 Apr 2018 - 20:54
Hi, Lisa,

Welcome to Kindred Spirits! I'm glad you found us. We'd be glad to offer any help we can.

Before we can upgrade your membership, we'll have to ask you to confirm that your nephew is 18 or older.

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Mon 23 Apr 2018 - 22:39
Hello Lisa, glad you made it here.
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Wellcome Lisa.
I truly believe you will find the support you are looking for.
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Tue 24 Apr 2018 - 20:24
Welcome Lisa Smile
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Tue 24 Apr 2018 - 20:34
Hi, Lisa,

We still need you to confirm that your nephew is 18 or older before we can upgrade your membership.

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Thu 26 Apr 2018 - 2:56
Welcome Lisa. I hope you find what you are looking for here and can find support from others who have similar feelings.
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Thu 26 Apr 2018 - 10:01
Still haven’t heard back from Lisa about her nephew’s age. I’ve PMed her, but she hasn’t picked it up. We can’t upgrade her until she answers the question. Some people never do.

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