ALL new members must make an introductory post in here BEFORE we can upgrade them

If you are an ally, you are welcome here. Thanks for joining.

im trying to introduce myself because im a newbie but for some reason cant. the only forum available seems to be the moderator forum please can you help so i can update myself

I saw your introduction in response to a totally different thread. I've upgraded you... welcome aboard, you should see all forums now

Hi, and hello:

First off, Happy Easter everyone.

Secondly, I used to be a member of the board maybe two generations ago. I think there was a big event where the site decamped to the server that predated one one that it just transitioned from. I just like to check in from time to time as its nice to be with people who get it. Anyway onto the introduction proper, I had a romantic relationship with my mother on and off for 15 years in the 1980s to the 1990s. She's quite frail now and but it was a positive factor in our lives and it still takes up a lot of room in my head as I'm sure similar events do in everyone else's here.

Be well.

Welcome back! I've upgraded you. Please do add your thoughts to the various discussions.

Hey Qwerty It's a pleasure to get know you. I am in a similar relationship with my mom. Almost 13 years intimate together, the most wonderful of my life. And my mother is even more excited and happy to be with her son. Welcome home.

Welcome aboard Qwerty

hiya and welcome Qwerty!

hi again jane doe. I m trying to properly introduce my self again and you seemingly sorted it out for me at the beginning of the week and now im seeing all the forums when i log in but i still cant post my individual topic on the forum and can only make replys to others posted topics.

I been to the FAQ area to see whats wrong and have clicked on the how do i post a topic link but nothing is happening. Its seems i like im jinxed.

Xheart wrote:hi again jane doe. I m trying to properly introduce my self again and you seemingly sorted it out for me at the beginning of the week and now im seeing all the forums when i log in but i still cant post my individual topic on the forum and can only make replys to others posted topics.

I been to the FAQ area to see whats wrong and have clicked on the how do i post a topic link but nothing is happening. Its seems i like im jinxed.

Top left hand side of the screen just above the threads there should be a small button which says 'new topic', click on that and you should be able to post new threads.

I done a thorough look and cant find the button your pointing out. i think im going to have to leave this website alone. its a shame i thik it might of helped me

Xheart, if the website is giving you grief, consider keeping contact with me or one of the admins until we can have it sorted out. Our world's a rough place for us, going alone isn't easy.
If you'd rather not for whatever reason, of course that's your decision

Xheart, I've had a look at the admin panel, and there doesn't seem to be anything different about your account than any other account.

Click on the forum you want to participate in, and the button should be just above the list of threads, on the left hand side. The button says 'new topic' which will allow you to create a thread. I'm sorry you've been having problems with using the forum

No i cant see the new topic button ok if i dont see it by tonight then ill have give up. story of my life anyway. thanks for trying to help. may be the universe has other plans for me and is stopping me delibberatly

Try create new account then?

Hello! Well over the age of 18, promise. Just a little hesitant to give out personal information in public, at the moment. I met my older half brother several years ago and after a few years of muddling around and trying to deny how we feel, we decided to make a go of it. We are both relieved and feel absolutely confident in our decision, but know navigating the future is going to be trying, at best. Very thankful to find a place to help us over some of these hurdles!

lilBlue wrote:Hello! Well over the age of 18, promise. Just a little hesitant to give out personal information in public, at the moment. I met my older half brother several years ago and after a few years of muddling around and trying to deny how we feel, we decided to make a go of it. We are both relieved and feel absolutely confident in our decision, but know navigating the future is going to be trying, at best. Very thankful to find a place to help us over some of these hurdles!

Welcome!  Same scenario here... Half-sibs; both of us well over 18 and we met for the first time less than a year ago.  No muddling around in our case, though.  It took only a few weeks for something to happen.

Hi Archer! Nice to meet you. I think it would have happened day one! LOL But there were some extenuating circumstances. Look forward to learning from your experiences and chatting more

hiya lilBlue! you've been upgraded for the forums
I'm glad you've found your way here, hopefully you and yours will find our resources helpful
understandable to be a little hesitant, considering. Take your time, no worries

Thank you! Looking forward to getting to know you all!

lilBlue wrote:Hi Archer! Nice to meet you. I think it would have happened day one! LOL  But there were some extenuating circumstances. Look forward to learning from your experiences and chatting more

So far, not much to report besides the need to keep our mouths shut and "y'all need to find Jesus" (which rolls up to the first point).

Hi everyone. I'm a 32yo man from the U.S.
I am not in a consanguineous relationship but the subject has always been of interest. For the longest time I thought I was weird and mostly alone in my feelings. However, lately I have had time to do some reading which started on Reddit and lead me to Keith's blog, full marriage equality, which led me here… I've learned that not only is the fantasy far more common, but also more common in reality than I realized.

I would like to help how I can.

hiya Livefree!
I don't think your sentiments are too strange, given current social mores - but like you say, in reality consanguinamorous relationships aren't as rare as portrayed. I'm glad you've found your way here, and that you want to help.
Oh and you're clear for the forums
have a good a day!

Welcome, new members! I'm glad I could help via my blog.

Welcome to the newbies who joined us yesterday