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Hello ... I'm Kev and glad to be here

on Thu 16 Jun - 13:16
Hello everyone,

I'm Kevin and it took some courage for me to come here, even though I still haven't figured out why I should. I'd guess it's because it's so difficult to harbor a secret like mine for so many years and I have this compulsion to tell someone, or even everyone out there. It's been almost 20 years since Takako, my own mother and I began and we wanted to stop for so many times that we've lost count. But we couldn't, just couldn't stop. It wasn't just desire and passion, but a lotta love too.

My mother is a Japanese woman who'd come all the way from Osaka to have her college education here in California back in the late 70's. That's how she'd met my dad, who happened to be one of her teachers and twenty years her senior. They were already living together beginning her senior year and soon enough I was conceived. They did have quite a normal and ok marriage and as for me, my childhood was pretty ok as well. But I've always been closed to mom, probably because of the fact that my dad got a job which had him frequently flown to other countries when I was nine; and I am the only family my mom has here in the States. She's a quiet and shy lady and hasn't been able to make a lot of friends since she came here and that might also be a factor which has gotten us closer than we expected.

But the tipping point, if one could use that term, was my dad passed away when I was fifteen. Takako was sad, lost and scared. And holding on to each other was the only thing we could do. And that was how we started.

I'm glad I could tell others here that I love Takako ... and she's much more than my mom. Thanks for accepting me here.
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Re: Hello ... I'm Kev and glad to be here

on Fri 17 Jun - 2:13
You're not alone here, you're among friends.

You've been updated Smile
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Re: Hello ... I'm Kev and glad to be here

on Fri 17 Jun - 2:58
Welcome! Looking forward to hearing more from you. You are among friends.
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Re: Hello ... I'm Kev and glad to be here

on Fri 17 Jun - 9:24
Hiya Kevin! and welcome to the forum. It was very lovely to read your story ^_^
It does take some considerable courage to open up about, so that's understandable, and admirable too. I'm glad that you came here to share it with us! hopefully, you might find some resources here that can be of some help (the stories are good to read all around).
In any case it's just good to have you; we're all in this together!
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Re: Hello ... I'm Kev and glad to be here

on Fri 17 Jun - 9:27
Welcome !!
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on Fri 17 Jun - 23:54
Welcome aboard Kev, You're amongst supportive friends Smile
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Re: Hello ... I'm Kev and glad to be here

on Sat 18 Jun - 22:29
Welcome
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Re: Hello ... I'm Kev and glad to be here

on Wed 22 Jun - 16:47
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Your mother must be a beautiful woman inside and out. Welcome.
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