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Would you be in favour of a new forum being created for discussions about sex?

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I want everyones opinions

on Fri 3 Feb - 0:48
Since an important issue issue has cropped up (see the thread 'sexual posts' in announcements), I am going to ask for everybody's opinion here. The previous version of KS used to have a forum especially created for the discussion of sex, we don't mean talking dirty we mean conversations about sex. So the issue is really about whether you'd prefer any such posts to be in a separate forum, or to keep things as they are now. We would like to make sure that everyone is comfortable using the forum and that things are set up in the way that benefits everybody. This poll is running for two weeks, so make sure you cast your vote within that time please, otherwise you won't be able to.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 3 Feb - 3:23
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Without creating a separate are of the forum, we can encourage people to make it clear in the subject line or the top of the post of the first in the thread that they will be discussing a sexual topic. Maybe even a sticky thread. No pun intended.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 3 Feb - 18:59
Consanguineous relationships are sexual relationships. There is no reason to discourage honest discussions about the sexual aspects of these relationships. Putting such discussions into a sub-forum is a good way of separating them out. If someone wants to read or post questions about such things, he can do so there. Those who aren't interested in participating won't have to read such posts.

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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 3 Feb - 19:17
I opted out of voting since I'm just an ally and this forum is first and foremost for those who are in actual consang relationships....But just to offer my opinion here, at first I thought either option was ok. But thinking on it more, I think maybe it's best that the topic of sex is mixed in with the  other topics because it shows that these relationships have many aspects to them.. they can be both sexual and emotion-based. These sides don't have to be separate.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Wed 22 Feb - 13:37
i think i missed the cut off date for voting. but i vote yes to creating a sex discussion thread.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Tue 28 Feb - 15:17
I don't think we need a separate forum for sex. Just make it clear in the subject or something that the post is about sex.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Mon 13 Mar - 23:53
After some consideration, I feel it would be best if each individual thread that contains any discussions of sex to carry a warning in the heading, that way those who do not wish to read it may skip that thread.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Thu 16 Mar - 21:07
Either way, unfortunately the forum being so unvisited, I doubt such threads will get more activity. When I came here, I thought the fact of someone coming here, meant he/she was eager to share and talk. Even considering a large part of fake profiles, I can't get why most people really engaged in consang relationship don't seem to interact here. And when they do, why most of the time, we (seem to) read only one of the two partners.
Sorry if I hurt somebody, it was just an honest outsider's opinion and impression.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Thu 16 Mar - 22:41
evanescente~ondine wrote:Either way, unfortunately the forum being so unvisited, I doubt such threads will get more activity. When I came here, I thought the fact of someone coming here, meant he/she was eager to share and talk. Even considering a large part of fake profiles, I can't get why most people really engaged in consang relationship don't seem to interact here. And when they do, why most of the time, we (seem to) read only one of the two partners.
Sorry if I hurt somebody, it was just an honest outsider's opinion and impression.

The forum has always had busy patches and quiet ones. Overall though it's growing, which is good. That said, I think a lot of people sign up and then just become long term lurkers... for some people things are just really hard to talk about, and it's going to take time before that changes I'm afraid.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 17 Mar - 2:51
We can try asking questions to start threads.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Thu 23 Mar - 14:42
I have no objection to starting a forum about sex, but the possibility of it turning into a fapista nonsense "cum" forum is absolutely repellent to me.  There are hundreds of fake-porn fapista forums.  The world doesn't need another forum for weirdos. But it definitely does need an honest, real forum for actual consanguineous couples.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Thu 23 Mar - 21:54
Nobody was suggesting a forum for fap material, and that would never happen here anyway and I wouldn't create one even if some members wanted one! What was being suggested was a forum for threads where there was a question or comment about sex in general (but not in a pornographic way, like in an educational kind of way). So don't worry, your worst fear will never happen here.

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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 24 Mar - 0:12
It's rather hilarious when you think of it: we are all disgusted and preoccupied by exorcising evil perks and their depravity, and yet, talking about them is the one thing bringing here vulgarity. I know what they do, but it still amazes me to see how much you resent them. And to say that to encounter words like "f@p" is enough to make me feel nauseous... what an innocent child I am, against all odds Laughing
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 24 Mar - 4:00
My $.02: I try to not be too judgmental of those with an incest fetish.  There's already enough judgement getting flung around.  I'm more disturbed over the amount of time and energy they put into their "craft" (i.e. works of fiction).  I'll speculate that if genuine consang pornographic content were more readily available, they'd dial down their story writing.

I will confess that in our case (myself and my half-sister), we are both eager consumers of pornography, neither of us have an incest fetish, but we do embrace incest content (generally video) whenever we stumble across something that seems to be real.  There just isn't much out there that's even close to believable.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 24 Mar - 10:41
I know how you feel... I do it myself sometimes... And I feel guilty, as it's sick and disgusting. Though it happened sometimes, I rarely ever saw any "beautiful" pornography. Wouldn't you and your sister be glad to see real life people, and "take part" ? If more couples went poly, and each one's social network richer, sharing love with others, be them black, redheads, Asian, busting women or whatever including consang people would be a piece of cake. And pornography will die be thrown in history's trash-bin.
That apart, I understand regulars being existed by incest content, but not really incest people caring even a little bit for such a thing... wouldn't that amount to looking at yourself in the mirror ? Aren't you already, hmm, being what you see Suspect Question Or maybe you two are already poly, and lacking other trustworthy partners. Dear archer :-)
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Fri 24 Mar - 15:49
Well, we're both "wired poly" to a certain extent. I don't know about extending the relationship into poly arrangement but we would definitely play with a 3rd or a couple given the right situation. We'd have to be very careful about who we invite for obvious reasons...
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Sat 25 Mar - 16:45
I have to admit I'd probably read them, but am afraid I degenerate to a "letters" attitude and contribute inappropriately. I like sexy stories as much as anyone, but being here keeps me serious about my relationship.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Sat 25 Mar - 17:28
It's all the same to me. But in order to prevent people getting offended reading about such topics, my guess is that having a "[SEX]Topic name" format or completely separate subforum for such topics, would be a good idea.
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Re: I want everyones opinions

on Wed 3 May - 13:35
oh, i upvote YES, very much . i am positive ,though with all nessecary precautions and indications.
what about results on an anonymous questionaire (i participated also -from last summer)?
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