Hello everyone from me :-D

As I have some time on my hands this evening, I've decided I better check in to my friend Janes forum she keeps telling me about :-)

I myself am in a very deep and loving relationship with my son. We dont see each other as this but as husband and wife. We have been together for nearly 5 years now and although we have had our ups and downs (he met a girl for friendship, I found out where they were and I let his car tyres down!) we have made a promise to each other that we will be true to one another for the rest of our lives.

Theres only 1 problem. As much as I would like to have his child, we all know what would happen if I did. He was taken from me at the age of 5 and placed in adoptive care along with his 3 sisters, none of whom want to know him now. He came back to me and a few months later, things happened and we fell in love. Concerning children, he has said his adoptive parents told him he would be useless as a dad and that he wouldnt amount to anything worthwhile in his life. I know he wants to prove not only to them but to himself that he can be a good dad but now hes given up on that as he has declared he doesnt want anyone else in his life in the way I am. We've talked about it and decided when we can afford to we're going to look at surrogacy.

Is there anyone on here in a similar relationship? I'd love to hear from you :-D bye for now xx

I've upgraded you, welcome back

Thankyou Jane glad to be back x

Welcome to the new digs!

Welcome