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ithinkaboutit
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Tue 14 Sep 2021 - 2:05
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Hi,

I came across this quite unexpectedly and am not sure what all to say or even feel, other than just wanting to feel.. not crazy.

I'm in my 40s. I was very close to my mother and had deep feelings for her, that were highly conflicting with the faith beliefs I was raised with and were unresolved. She is no longer with us. As a result of those feelings and other perspectives I gained about the topics of this board, I remain single, due to feeling as though I can't be loved without being honest - and the honesty about such matters as this, drive away most people.

So here I am.

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Tue 14 Sep 2021 - 2:54
Welcome aboard! I’ve upgraded your account. I hope this forum helps you and that you can help others here.

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Tue 14 Sep 2021 - 10:44
Hi, Ithinkaboutit, welcome to Kindred Spirits. Random people might not understand your feelings for your mother, but we understand them here. And I hope someday you can find a partner who understands them as well, if that’s what you want. Please enjoy our forum.

Stay safe,
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Tue 14 Sep 2021 - 15:13
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Tue 14 Sep 2021 - 21:10
There are many of us who have been through this. Reach out if you’d like to.

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Wed 15 Sep 2021 - 0:14
Welcome to Kindred Spirits. People here are familiar with the sort of cognitive dissonance that you are experiencing. I hope you enjoy participating here.

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