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Wed 9 Nov 2022 - 12:31
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I’m 42 and she is 67. She is in amazing shape. I’ve always felt that there is some kind of sexual tension between us but I’m not able to proceed with it. She is very cool & open minded. We go on dinner, pubs, holidays, trekking together, just like two friends. We’ve done camping together. I’ve noticed the way she looks at me and scan me upside down. We don’t live together but we often visit each other during weekends. It would be really helpful if a woman/ mom in similar situation could guide me.

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Wed 9 Nov 2022 - 13:00
FabVet wrote:I’m 42 and she is 67. She is in amazing shape. I’ve always felt that there is some kind of sexual tension between us but I’m not able to proceed with it. She is very cool & open minded. We go on dinner, pubs, holidays, trekking together, just like two friends. We’ve done camping together. I’ve noticed the way she looks at me and scan me upside down. We don’t live together but we often visit each other during weekends. It would be really helpful if a woman/ mom in similar situation could guide me.

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Fabio

Hi, not a mom, but I’ve been there.

It sounds to me like a romantic relationship. You describe activity that boyfriends and girlfriends seek to have, but sadly don’t. Your communication must be pretty good.

Don’t confront or initially proposition her in situations where she can’t get away or feel trapped, such as in a tent while camping. Even if it’s a fantasy she’d like to make real, confronting her personal demons might overwhelm her. She may also have had these thoughts for awhile. I’d wait until she does another full body scan and ask her if she likes what she sees. If she answers in the affirmative you can gradually increase the specificity of what you’d like to do about it. Tell her you like what you see, as well.

Are the two of you physically affectionate? Hand holding, massages (shoulder/neck, arms, back, feet) help with intimacy without being too intrusive. Kiss her neck while holding her from behind. Offer to brush her hair. Bring her tea or a glass of wine when she’s bathing. Keep doing all of those things a good son does like heavy lifting, fixing stuff, or taking tasks off her plate. Notice her hair, makeup (or lack thereof!), clothes etc. Women send signals to the world every day….notice it.

If your account is upgraded, I have some other specific suggestions to prepare for intimacy.

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Wed 9 Nov 2022 - 22:46
Fabio, I’ve upgraded your account. Welcome aboard!

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Thu 10 Nov 2022 - 10:19
Welcome to KS, FabVet! Hope you can find a mom in a similar situation here. Would you also want advice from a son?

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