Hello Everyone!

Hello everyone,
I am really glad to find out there is a serious forum where it is possible to talk about consensual relationships between people in the family.
I am 32 and my sister is 30 .
I had an incestous relationship with her when we were teenagers .
During that age we loved to discover ourselves trough sexuality and we didn't feel ashamed at all.
This experience went on for two years but after I have started the college we stopped .. apparently there is not a reason why we didn't continue .
I think about those times very often but I really don't know how to talk about that with her . There is still a particular energy between us and I can feel that very clearly. Probably I am just afraid of being rejected by her ( and I don't know how to handle that situation if this happens ) .
Is there anyone who has a similar experience ?
What should I do to bring back that topic again during a normal conversation? Thank you very much in advance for your suggestions!

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I think that if you need to talk to her about it, you could always bring up those days in general and see where the conversation flows. If it gets mentioned you can then explain your feelings to her.

Hello Jane, thank you very much
The problem is that I feel ashamed somehow..and I feel a weirdo. I am afraid to be judged . She is very different, the typical girl who has long time relationships . Now she has a boyfriend. I am pretty sure she considerates incest something wrong and I am afraid to be rejected . I have a huge sexual desire and I am afraid I will keep it to myself forever without having the chance to express it.

Welcome! I hope you find the forum to be of some help.

Thank you!

welcome

Thanks Cristina

thank you for joining, I hope you find resolution to your situation!
please let us know how things go

ItalianIncest- I think you know the right answer, have the conversation. If she really rejects incest at this point in her life, you will at least understand. But, what if she hasn't reconciled her thoughts, and misses you as you do her, that's the positive possibility of reuniting with each other. I first got together with my mom as an adult, after a long marriage and divorce (mine). Don't miss the chance for something beautiful.

This is important you got to tell her. ive told my sister and have been robustly rejected so far but before that their was like you an energy between us that i saw in her eyes she recognised so im not sure ewhat shes up to now may be she cant handle it as an oen truth.

You know it can be fun and interesting talking abou the past love etc even if it no longer exists as well