Hello...I'm in love & I don't care lol

Hello all. I am a 31 year old female from the USA. My half brother who was adopted as a baby found his birth mother, my now step mother earlier this year. My brother is the same age as me, four months younger. He and I began talking daily since he found and reached out to my step mom. He and I became quite close over the past months and we realized that we are very attracted to one another and we have grown to fall in love. We have yet to meet because we live 13 plus hours away from one another but at the end of the month we will meet. I am married, he is not. He says he will be able to remain 'good but, our attraction is deep and very intense. I'm not scared to meet him, but, I know how I feel and how he feels and I do want him a lot. And he wants me. I am hoping we remain 'good, just for our consciousness. However, we have already agreed that we can and will kiss when we meet. That is currently our 'line.
Looking for advice in regards to meeting your sibling and how it went in this forum.

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This sounds like it might be GSA. GSA is often intensified by smell. So, if you're already feeling this way now, you're likely to have your feelings intensified merely by being in his presences, so lines are very likely to be blurred. If this isn't GSA but merely escapism, well, actually, either way... It is far different to be with someone in person than fall for them over texting, phone calls, and video chats. So be very careful.

Ethical non-monogamy is a thing. Actually, it's many things. But you and your husband have an agreement of monogamy, you could be cruising for a world of hurt, especially if consanguineous sex is illegal where you'll be. If you cross your husband, he can make your life miserable. Sorry to be the voice of warning.

Hiya & welcome to the forums cookie!
I second what FME's said. Hopefully we can be helpful for you though, and I hope to see you around
If not, good luck to you & your brother with your meeting!

Welcome to the forums Cookie

i am not at all sure how good you 'll be . you seem full of GSA energy. welcome cookie1117!