Re: You MUST post your introduction in the Introductions forum BEFORE we can upgrade you

Sun 1 Oct 2017 - 22:52

hiya As, you've been cleared for the forums. I hope we can answer your questions! or maybe help you learn more about us. Please let me or the other admins know if you want to ask anything.

Mon 2 Oct 2017 - 6:04

Welcome, aaaaa1128. Looking forward to hearing more from you. Now that you've been upgraded, feel free to explain in the main forum areas why the topic interests you.

Sat 28 Oct 2017 - 0:33

Hi, Jane, thank you for your work! I am in my late 30s, and I am struggling to decide whether I should tell my father I love him as a whole person. I am pretty positive he is also attracted to me (long story), but I believe both of us feel so guilty for being in love that we have tried for a long time to ignore it. I am only just now discovering that, no, wanting to be in a consanguineous relationship does not make us depraved, dysfunctional people, and I've started to hope that we can one day be free to love each other affirmatively, even if we must do so in private. In other words, I'm trying to tell myself to get over the shame I have been taught to feel so we can make each other happy.

Sat 28 Oct 2017 - 0:48 Message reputation : 100% (1 vote)

Jane, I've upgraded you so you can now see the whole forum. I've also responded you your e-mail to me, so if you haven't already, you should go and read it. If you need any additional help or advice please don't hesistate to contact me. Finally, welcome aboard Smile

Sat 28 Oct 2017 - 4:02 Message reputation : 100% (1 vote)

Glad you made it to our forum!

I recommended you/your blog to JHD, JD. She specially asked about you after reading your interview.

Sat 28 Oct 2017 - 4:09

Thank you all so much!!!

Sat 28 Oct 2017 - 7:45

Hiya & welcome JHD!

Sun 29 Oct 2017 - 3:58

I changed my name because I don't want to infringe on Jane's Jane. I also figured that, while I'm at it, I might as well wear my heart on my avatar. I love you

Sun 29 Oct 2017 - 22:54

oh considerate of you Elektra (formerly JHD). It's a good name too!

Mon 30 Oct 2017 - 0:43

Yes, the new name is appropriate and appreciated to reduce any possible confusion others might get, LOL. I'm glad Keith referred you to my blog because it's nice being able to help other people with my work.

Tue 14 Nov 2017 - 5:01

Hi everyone i am very soupportive of the consanguinomory community

Tue 14 Nov 2017 - 12:54

Remoon, please confirm you are 18 or older and explain a little more, please.

Wed 27 Dec 2017 - 8:07

Hello Jane, I'm a 42 year old American expat in Singapore. I have a 19 year old daughter who lives with me who could be mistaken for her mother's twin. I met and fell madly in love with the mother, who was a high class stripper in Las Vegas. Alas, she is committed to polyamory. She broke my heart but managed to get pregnant by me. Now i'm confused if the feeling I have for my daughter is only because of her mother. This is the reason I decided to join

Thanks

Wed 27 Dec 2017 - 12:00

The words "in here" in the title of this post are a bit ambiguous, aren't they? Smile

UN

Thu 28 Dec 2017 - 0:36

I meant 'in here' as being 'in introductions' but I think some people just post their intro in this thread... I can see how that could happen. I guess it doesn't matter so much because I can still see who needs upgrading and as long as the intro contains the right elements I can go ahead and upgrade them anyway Smile

Thu 28 Dec 2017 - 1:30

You're the boss, boss!

UN

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 15:37

I am here not only to learn more about GSA, but also to support my wife as she deals with this issue with her brother. I have supported her 100% and will continue to do so.

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 15:58

Hi, Herbestfriend,

Welcome to KS! Glad to support you and your wife. I like your forum name!

An admin will need to approve you for full access. The only possible issue I can see is if what happened between her and her brother was when either of them was under 18. Since it’s a GSA issue and sounds like it happened recently, I doubt that that is the case.

Best,
UN

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 16:08 Message reputation : 100% (1 vote)

Thank you for the welcome Unowen. I am very happy to have found this site. And no, nothing underage in our story. But that story will be up to her to tell when she joins.

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 17:10

Welcome aboard, Herbestfriend. I've upgraded your account. It's wonderful that you're kind towards your wife instead of hostile.

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 17:15

Thank you FME. I will admit the experience has been a bit of a ride.

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 18:49

I forgot to mention, I am in my 50s age wise.

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 19:05

You're welcome, Herbestfriend. Please feel free to explore the forums or comment as you feel is best.

I can only imagine what it's been like for both of you. Like FME, I think it''s great that you're there for her. Hope to see her in the forum after you've checked it out.

Best,
UN

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 19:14

Welcome to our forums Herbestfriend, and thank you for being so considerate. Let us know if you, your wife, or her brother, have questions. Take care & have a good weekend

Sat 27 Jan 2018 - 20:21

Thank you Sleepinggrain.

You MUST post your introduction in the Introductions forum BEFORE we can upgrade you