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[ManycaneNewbie]

Hello everyone:

My sister (55) and I (52) have been attracted to each other for years, but she said she wouldn't do anything while our parents were alive.  Now that Dad has passed, we both know what's in front of us.  I am married, she is not, but I feel a more intense sense of loyalty to my sister than my wife.  Have any of you been through this?  Not wanting to be cruel to my wife, but I have about 20 good years left, and would like to spend them with someone who's very excited to be my lover.

Sis will be staying with wife and me for Christmas, and I would like to handle the situation which as much dignity and pleasure as possible for everyone.

Thanks for listening.

[Jane DoeAdmin]

Welcome to KS, I've just upgraded your membership. You now have access to the forums which were hidden before.

As to your situation, it is probably best to discuss that in one of the hidden forums due to the sensitive nature of the subject. But consider: does your wife have any idea? Is your marriage a happy one? If you answer in this thread, I'll move it to the private section

[CrimsonfieldStar Member]

Hi, I'm Alex and 23 years old.

I'm interested (and endorse) in consanguineous relationships and marriage. I've been looking around the web for information and communities resolving around this topic that doesn't emphasize on fetishism and pornography.

Pleased to meet you all.

[Jane DoeAdmin]

In which case, welcome aboard Alex. This is the very reason this forum exists, so people can talk about the subject and their experiences WITHOUT having to deal with people treating it as a sexual kink, let's face it, the incest subreddits can be pretty tedious for that reason.

[FullMarriageEqualityAdmin]

Welcome aboard!

[david leeNewbie]

48M here. no longer in a sexual relationship, but want to see if my experiences were/are considered "normal" for a group like this.

[Jane DoeAdmin]

Hellow David, before we can upgrade you, could you please confirm that yourself and your partner were over 18 at the time that sexual activities were taking place?

[FullMarriageEqualityAdmin]

David, to clarify, if you were both under 18 and close in age to each other, that's common. But please do address Jane's question.

[rookie1255Newbie]

I am a 35 year old male. After high school I fooled around with a cousin and living in a small town I know multiple people who have married relatives, with the closest relation being first cousins. As a community we kind of just pretend these couples aren't not related and don't really talk about it except as neighborhood gossip about how weird it is.

[jjv81Newbie]

Hi everyone.....new to this whole thing. Confirming I am 37 y.o.. Looking to discuss experiences that other males have had in a father/son GSA situation. I haven't found much of anything on this type of relationship and would like to get other's guidance who have experienced this. I met my father when I was 30 yo and he was 50 yo. Our relationship has grown, but some boundaries have been crossed. I don't feel guilt or shame about the way I view our relationship, but would like to know that I'm not the only one who is experiencing something like this. Can be pretty lonely when you have no one to really discuss this with. Hope to hear from someone in same boat.

[FullMarriageEqualityAdmin]

jjv81 - Welcome! Good to see you here. I've upgraded your account. You now have access to the member areas.

[Jane DoeAdmin]

Welcome to KS

[doylesNewbie]

Hi 50 year old adopted daughter who recently connected with birth father after DNA test. We are both madly in love with each other and I'm looking for advice on how to proceed with this GSA relationship.

[GuestGuest]

Welcome to KS Doyles.

[menakageekNewbie]

Hi.. I m new member

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[FullMarriageEqualityAdmin]

doyles, I've upgraded your account. Welcome aboard!

menakageek, please read the rules and elaborate as to why you are here. Thanks!

[Jane DoeAdmin]

Welcome Doyles

[sleepingrainAdmin]

hiya doyles welcome to KS

[CJRNewbie]

Hi There. My name is CJ and I am a 24-year-old journalist and documentarian with VICE Media who has been trying to learn more about Genetic Sexual Attraction and consanguinamory. I connected briefly with Christina Shy last year and was able to learn a bit more about her experience and advocacy efforts as well as some of the biggest hurdles and misconceptions she felt excited within media when it comes to GSA. Unfortunately, I got pulled into some rather involved projects shortly after connecting with Christina and was unable to dedicate myself to pursuing this documentary. However, I would really like to revisit the topic in 2019.

In exploring this topic a bit last year, it became clear to me that there is a real lack of unbiased media attention to the GSA and consanguinamory community that does not sensationalize or misrepresent the human experiences within and behind this community. While I know there are many hurdles in sharing these stories in a way that does not put any individuals at risk, I would very much like to look into the possibilities here, as I feel a GSA documentary that centers around individual, personal, and very human experiences could be quite powerful.

In the meantime, I am hoping to learn more about experiences with GSA and any stories members of the forum would like to share with me. If anyone is interested in speaking to me more about this project on or completely off the record, I am fully available to do so and will also post my info in the appropriate media channels of the forum. I know this forum is a safe space for many and by no means want to violate that. My goal is just to grow my understanding and to be open to anyone who would like to speak with me.

If anyone would like to reach me outside the forum, I am available at cj.risman@vice.com.

[Unowen17Admin]

Hi, CJ, welcome to Kindred Spirits! I’ve upgraded your membership. And we certainly appreciate your interest in documenting GSA in a more balanced way.

Since you’ve researched GSA, I’m sure you’re aware how big a problem it is for those who fall into it and their families. It can tear lives and families apart. Many members wouldn’t wish GSA on anyone, so we appreciate your sensitivity. We get interview offers fairly regularly, and the sticking point has always been disclosing our identities to the interviewers.

Wikipedia link on Vice Media for our other members: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vice_Media

CJ's page on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cj-risman/

Best,
UN

[Jane DoeAdmin]

Hello there CJR, Cristina Shy is a friend of mine. I don't know if you're already aware of me and my work, but my blog is consanguinamory, linked to in my signature at the bottom of each of my posts here. I have however spoken to people from your company before, and was unable to participate in any interviews because of the requirement for me to share my real name and details, for the most obvious reasons I can't do that. HOWEVER, should your boss be willing to waive that requirement, I am willing to do an audio interview on the strict conditions that my voice is heavily disguised and that the original version is audible to yourself only, and that it is conducted over wire. This is to protect my anonymity even to yourself, and also to protect you as a journalist (after all, you cannot be court subpoenaed for information on me that you do not possess). Considering that our experiences here are illegal in many places, security is of a high priority to us and you'll find many have similar or the same requirements as myself.

My experience is not of GSA, as there was no separation involved in my experience, I simply fell in love with the father I had known all my life... but if you're studying consanguinamory as a whole you may be interested in the non-GSA consang point of view, which is where I would come in. I've been involved in communities discussing consanguinamory on and off for most of my adult life, and so I have gained much knowledge, all of which you can ask me about for your documentary... if you meet my requirements.

You're absolutely right that there is not enough neutral coverage of this issue in the media. In fact, most of the time the subject of 'incest' only seems to come up when the case is highly dysfunctional (because dysfunctional examples of ANY type of relationship exist) or a case of child sexual abuse (which is disgusting), and as a result, the average person believes we're all these horrible perverts when that just isn't the case at all. Apart from the small difference of us preferring to be with a relative, our lives are every bit as average as anyone elses. That is what is the real story, how NORMAL we are. Yet we face jail, just for being what we are. Journalists JUST LIKE YOU can help us make a difference to others who dare not even google the subject much less join us to understand that they aren't alone.

If you're interested, PM me here, or e-mail me at janedoeofks@protonmail.com and we can discuss this further.

[mmmonteNewbie]

Per instructions, I am 53 and in love with still beautiful mom. In the last month she has reached out and we talk and text often now

[Unowen17Admin]

Hi, Mmmonte,

Welcome to KS. I’ve upgraded your account. Please feel free to share and participate in the members-only forums.

Best,
UN

[FullMarriageEqualityAdmin]

Welcome!

[taildragger22Newbie]

Hello everyone, I’m a 30 year old guy. Definitely consider me an ally. My own relationship with my younger sister is unique. Hoping to be able to discuss/talk with ya’ll. Less, I dunno pornographic atmosphere I hope.

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