Introduction - GSA to my (37m) Half Sister (20f)

Just like it says...I've discovered I have an attraction to my half-sister (we grew up apart).  Just trying to navigate it and figure it all out. I truly don't know if she feels the same way, although I suspect she might. I'm also attracted to my mother, who I told (It was just us for most of my life growing up). I've never acted on these feelings...but they're certainly confusing and I'm not opposed to it...I just don't want to cause issues with my relationship with my sister or my mother.  I'm 37 FYI.  Happy to meet you all!

Hi, BrotherA, welcome to Kindred Spirits. Happy to meet you, too! I’ve upgraded your account.

That’s always the dilemma we face, isn’t it? We want to change our relationships, but we don’t want to cause issues in them. And we’re afraid that acting on our interests would do Bad Things. Except that you did tell your mother about your feelings for her, and I guess she’s accepted that you have them.

Hope you enjoy our forum, and please participate however you see fit!

Peace,
UN

Welcome aboard!

brotherAttractedToHSis wrote:Just like it says...I've discovered I have an attraction to my half-sister (we grew up apart).  Just trying to navigate it and figure it all out.  I truly don't know if she feels the same way, although I suspect she might.  I'm also attracted to my mother, who I told (It was just us for most of my life growing up).  I've never acted on these feelings...but they're certainly confusing and I'm not opposed to it...I just don't want to cause issues with my relationship with my sister or my mother.  I'm 37 FYI.  Happy to meet you all!

Thank you for sharing. I imagine this must be confusing and challenging to navigate.

This topic is relevant to me, so I'm interested in how things work out for you. Hopefully for the best.

Welcome to the forum.
I had a relationship w my mom for about 5 years, 30 years ago.