- diNewbie
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Join date : 2024-01-22
Introduction and a Cry for Help...
Mon 22 Jan 2024 - 17:17
I'm in love with my (non-identical) twin brother. We are both male and 20 yo. I tried everything to get his attention: standing naked next to him, petting him, observe him while he was naked, etc. But after all of this he doesn't even seem to realise I love him, and I'm getting desperate because he might move soon. What can I do to change this situation and make that relationship I dream about happen?
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- Olderson1991Senior Member
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Re: Introduction and a Cry for Help...
Tue 23 Jan 2024 - 6:31
Welcome to the group. I'd say try openly talking about your interest with him.
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Re: Introduction and a Cry for Help...
Tue 23 Jan 2024 - 9:51
Welcome to Kindred Spirits, Di. I’ve upgraded your account.
I’d echo Olderson’s advice. If your brother is about to move, then you’ll have to decide whether to confess to him or just let it drop.
Peace,
UN
I’d echo Olderson’s advice. If your brother is about to move, then you’ll have to decide whether to confess to him or just let it drop.
Peace,
UN
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- diNewbie
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Re: Introduction and a Cry for Help...
Tue 23 Jan 2024 - 22:14
Thanks for the advice people but what can I do if this idea of confessing my love to him goes very wrong?
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Re: Introduction and a Cry for Help...
Wed 24 Jan 2024 - 10:00
It’s a common concern, Di. I’d say don’t focus on the worst case. Instead, just take it slowly and carefully and give both of yourselves room to back away if the conversation becomes awkward. An initial awkward moment doesn’t mean it’s going to stay awkward.
Take it in stages. Introduce to him the idea that some brothers love each other romantically. Ask him whether he thinks it’s okay.
Beyond that, just do your best and be prepared to live with the results. Adults own the consequences of their actions, whatever they are.
Peace,
UN
Take it in stages. Introduce to him the idea that some brothers love each other romantically. Ask him whether he thinks it’s okay.
Beyond that, just do your best and be prepared to live with the results. Adults own the consequences of their actions, whatever they are.
Peace,
UN
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Every now and then, an ally can say a few words, the right words, and change someone’s life for the better.
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