Just saying hi

My friend told me I need to say hi to you all, which I'm happy to do. I'm 43 in Michigan, a divorced mom of two sons and have been close with the eldest for three years.

Hi, TammieL,

Welcome to Kindred Spirits congratulations on your love with your eldest son.

Please confirm that he was 18 or older when the relationship started and we'll upgrade your account for full access to the forum.

Best,
UN

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Welcome to KS TammieL. I also am from the mitten state. I hope you find the info here helpful and the community here are friendly and very helpful with any questions you may have. Best wishes to you and yours.

TammieL,

To be clear, it's OK if you raised your eldest and have always been in his life. We just want confirmation that any sexual activity between you two started when he was 18 or over. Of course a more raising kids has a parental relationship with them. UN is referring to the sexual relationship.

Hi TammieL. Welcome to KS. I'm also a Michigander. Hope you find what you're looking for here.

Hi Tammie!

I'd like to thank you for finding the courage to post and would like to welcome to our community. This is a very special place that you'll find welcoming, supporting, and very open minded. The first step is always the hardest, but take comfort in the fact that you are no longer alone.

We're all certainly open to extending you many olive branches of peace and trust. My love affair was with my cousin, and there's just simply nothing that can compare to the myriad of sweeping, lasting emotions. Its terrifying and intoxicating at the same time. It took me YEARS to come to terms with this part of me that simply could not be ignored. Its a journey so few understand, and I applaud you and your son for taking that step together. I'd love to invest the time in hearing your story!

Welcome aboard!

- Kirok