Introduction

Hi guys. I'm an Australia 20yo female. I recently reconnected with my biological father. I've been sitting here staring at my screen for the last 5 minutes trying to figure out what to say next. We instantly had a connection, initiated an online relationship and he fell in love with me. He is 47, lives a long way from me and has a wife. I have a female fiance & I actually identify as a lesbian. So go figure. Our online relationship came to an end when our SO's found out what was happening. I have a lot of questions and a lot of confusion around all of this. Thank you to FME for showing me the way to this forum.

Welcome aboard! I've upgraded your account. I'm glad you made it here.

Genetic Sexual Attraction tends to happen in line with sexual orientation. We're you aware that you are attracted to some men? Anyway, we could talk more about things in the member areas, to which you should now have access.

I think maybe I've always had a 'daddy kink'. I experimented with guys during high school, but knew I was definitely attracted to women. However, there was this one teacher who has an absolute dadbod, that 4 years later I still sometimes dream about. He and my father seem to be the only exception to the rule, hence my pondering it might be a daddy kink.

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Welcome aboard. I can see why it could be a bit confusing to you that you'd be attracted to a small number of men (your dad included) while you are primarily attracted to other women. Maybe you're homoflexible rather than strictly lesbian? It seemed you experienced GSA towards your dad, which isn't unusual at all for reuniting relatives. You'll find lots of support and understanding on this forum