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Wolfie
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Tue 29 Oct 2019 - 22:08
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Hi! I'm 24 and have been an ally of consanguinamorous relationships since around the end of high school, when I started to think through where the taboo comes from and what makes a relationship right or wrong. I'm also queer and transgender, so I'm very familiar with people using their own disgust as a reason why something is wrong, and it frustrates me when I see that happening to other groups as well. In addition, I think it may be relevant that I'm gray-asexual, which means I rarely if ever feel sexual attraction, and I have trouble parsing what is or isn't sexual attraction. As a result, I've had a number of experiences where I'm not sure if I might be attracted to someone I'm not "supposed" to be attracted to, and in many cases my feelings if I imagine sex with a family member are the same as imagining it with anyone else. I think this gives me more empathy for consanguinamorous attraction and love, because I feel like it isn't so far from being me. Anyway, I'm here to support and maybe relate, and I hope one day the world will be more open minded. They/them pronouns, please & thanks.
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Tue 29 Oct 2019 - 23:03
Hi, Wolfie,

Welcome to Kindred Spirits, and thank you for being an ally. Wondering how you found your way here?

I’ve upgraded your membership.

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Wed 30 Oct 2019 - 2:39
Welcome aboard! This is a safe place for you.

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Wed 30 Oct 2019 - 6:52
FullMarriageEquality wrote:Welcome aboard! This is a safe place for you.

Yeah, I should have said that. Smile

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Wed 30 Oct 2019 - 19:12
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Thanks! UN, I found it via FullMarriageEquality Smile
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