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Bromark
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on Sun 9 Feb 2020 - 1:36
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62 yo man who has had life long romantic feelings toward my Sister but I have never shared those feelings with her. I feel shame and guilt for my feelings and frustration over my powerlessness to deal with them. Hope to gain insight into how others with similar experiences. Thank You.
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on Sun 9 Feb 2020 - 2:08
welcome. A mod or admin will approve you soon. Just remember you're not alone and more people then you think deal with these feelings.
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on Sun 9 Feb 2020 - 2:17
Hi, Bromark, welcome to Kindred Spirits. Celes was right. Smile I’ve upgraded your membership.

There’s no reason to feel ashamed and guilty over being attracted to your sister. You love her in a special way, that only you can.

I hope you’ll tell us more about yourself and your situation in the members-only forums. You’re among friends here, and safe. We get it.

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on Sun 9 Feb 2020 - 2:22
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Thanks to you both. I am glad I found the forum
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on Sun 9 Feb 2020 - 8:02
Welcome aboard!

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on Wed 12 Feb 2020 - 1:27
Welcome to KS, you're not alone here, as you can tell. Believe me, there is NOT REASON you should be ashamed of your feelings for your sister. Most of us have had to deal with hiding feelings, or in many of our cases hiding entire relationships from view. There is nothing wrong with you at all, there is something terribly wrong with society for not allowing you to express the true nature of your love in a healthy manner. You're amongst friends here, and we can help you sort out any mixed up emotions Smile
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on Wed 12 Feb 2020 - 5:27
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Thank you Jane. It is comforting that I have a place to go where others understand .
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on Wed 12 Feb 2020 - 22:38
hiya & welcome Bromark!
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on Fri 21 Feb 2020 - 0:44
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Welcome my friend. I am in a similar spot to yours, (not ashamed or afraid of my feelings, but really afraid of what would happen should she reject me, you know the whole stigma and taboo). I hope you find a place to belong here and at least be able to share your feelings without the fear of being stigmatised.
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