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Tue 31 Mar 2020 - 21:45
Hi I’m 38 years old female. I am married and we have a 18 years old daughter. I’m bisexual and my daughter know that me and her dad have occasional girlfriends and have threesomes. Lately me and my husband has been talking about involving her into our lifestyle. Has any parents went through this and how did you brought it up.
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Hi I’m 38 years old female. I am married and we have a 18 years old daughter. I’m bisexual and my daughter know that me and her dad have occasional girlfriends and have threesomes. Lately me and my husband has been talking about involving her into our lifestyle. Has any parents went through this and how did you brought it up.
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Tue 31 Mar 2020 - 23:44
Well, obviously she will have realized by now that you and your husband are not exclusive to each other, but as to involving her.... has she expressed any interest at all in your sex lives? If not, it would be sensible to wait for her to make the first move, or at the bare minimum express curiosity by asking questions, Otherwise there would be the potential for her to get freaked out. Also bear in mind, consang love is not like any other kind of love, a regular partner can in time be replaced if things turn sour, a relative can never be.
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Tue 31 Mar 2020 - 23:48
Yes she has asked questions and she is bisexual as well she had few girlfriends.
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Tue 31 Mar 2020 - 23:51
Okay, in which case it sounds like you're probably good to go, just take things gently. I'm going to upgrade your account so you can discuss more in the private areas of the forum.
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Tue 31 Mar 2020 - 23:53
Thank you
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Wed 1 Apr 2020 - 1:22
Haley, welcome. Before you involve your daughter, I’d strongly suggest that you and she read AnnieK’s story in Your Story. Things can... go wrong...

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Wed 1 Apr 2020 - 2:43
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Welcome aboard! UN beat me to it. It’s going to be very important that all three of you communicate well with each other. We can talk more about it in the member areas, to which you should now have access.

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Wed 1 Apr 2020 - 3:43
hihi & welcome
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Wed 1 Apr 2020 - 13:36
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Hi! Theres a very intresting input on this situation form the daughter perspective. Is in "Story"
Welcome and would like to know how this develops
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Wed 1 Apr 2020 - 17:49
How do I find that story?
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Wed 1 Apr 2020 - 19:56
Thank you all so much for help Smile
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