hello, aunt in college

Hello, i was started by my aunt(actually political aunt, but regardless) pretty late when i was in college. I still remember fondly although its been more than 10 years from that. Happy to be here !

hiya quantlsv! could you maybe say a little more about your situation?
thank you!

hi, sure. I was staying at my grandma for college, was probably 19 at the time. I was deeply in love with my aunt, so i was the one who initiated things. It was a very slow process, but at the end we lasted a couple off years on and off until i had to leave the country for studies. I am back now, and she tried to start something about a year ago (currently 38 she is 53), but I wasnt sure and i feel i hurt her feelings.

I still have feelings for her, i would say, but i dont know if she reciprocates or are just looking for sex. I was confused so i stepped away, and here i am now.

thank you! yes your situation does sound a little complicated.
And you're clear for the rest of our forums! if you'd like posting more about your story, we have an area just for that ^_^

thanks! will take a look later in the week. Nice to be here

Welcome aboard!

What is a “political” aunt?

Hi, Quant, welcome to KS! Hope you can resolve the situation between yourself and your aunt and that you didn’t hurt her feelings. Please let us know if we can help you do that in any way.

Keith, “political” might mean adopted. Another possibility: The young children in the neighborhood I was in called all the neighbors “Aunt This” or “Uncle That,” even though we weren’t the least bit related. The older women were “Grandma The Other.” At least the ones my parents were friendly with. Hopefully Quant will clarify this.

Stay safe,
UN

sorry, political means she was the wife off my uncle; who in turn is the brother of my father. So no direct blood relationship, still grew up with her. My uncle passed away 3-4 years before this happened.

Okay this makes sense, she is an aunt by marriage not by blood. Many countries still condemn this with incest laws, so obviously if this applies to you be careful and stay safe where you are.

BTW, Quant, does your forum name have something to do with finance?

Stay safe,
UN

Welcome !

Yes it is, thanks all !