An ally and a partner of a consanguinamorous person

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Hi, Sam, welcome to Kindred Spirits. And thank you for supporting your fiancée, despite her differences. I’ve upgraded your account.

Please feel free to request any help you need in the members-only forums. You all have our encouragement and support. And if your sweetheart or her father would like to use your account or open their own, they’re welcome as well. Just please let us know.

Stay safe,
UN

Welcome aboard! Glad to see you made it here.

Hi Sam, welcome to KS, and thank you for being an ally to your consang partner. I realize as a regular it must be hard for you to get your head around all of this, most people don't understand or want this kind of relationship. You've reached out to us, which means you're willing to learn, and that is an extremely positive thing, so please, feel free to ask us questions and you'll get and honest answer. Your partner obviously loves you, and she also loves her dad. What happens next depends upon how you feel about polyamory in general, how you feel about consanguinamory, and how you feeel about how these things are going to affect your relationship. The most crucial key is honesty with each other. If she is free to persue her father, presumably you are also free to persue other women you may also be interested in. All possibilities shoulde be frankly discussed so you each know where you stand. I am not poly, but some here are and they may be able to offer you further advice that I cannot.

Thank you all for this kind welcome.