Introduction

Hi all. I’m Maddie 24yo.

My twin brother and I have always been close, but over the last 18 months through all the lockdowns our relationship has changed to a more romantic one. Just hoping to connect with others with similar experiences who might be able to provide advice on the different emotions and any confusion that changed dynamic creates.

Hi, Maddie, welcome to Kindred Spirits, and congratulations on your love with your brother. I’ve upgraded your account.

We have a few other twin bro-sis couples here. Off the top of my head, Jeja and CircusAct. Probably others I’m not remembering, but you can search around.

Hope you make some friends and feel at home!

Stay safe,
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Hi Maddie -

Welcome to the site. Your relationship with your brother sounds beautiful. My sister and I are some what opposite of you. Our playing was done a very long time ago and came to an end due to circumstances never to be revisited (as of yet). That said, I still have very strong feelings for her and know what you're likely experiencing right now. Has your relationship become intimate yet, or is it just heading in that direction?

Welcome aboard!

Thank you all for the welcome.

Hey Mads, welcome to KS!

I’m with my twin brother too, we’re 23. If you ever wanna talk, feel free to hit me up!

Thank you I will do that. I have questions (and fears) and it would be good to hear how you have dealt with those.

Hello Maddie. I and my sister aren't twins but she is only 13 months younger than me. When we were kids we were very close, always together, we had a very strong connection. Growing up we started having romantic feelings. It was a very difficult situation.
I am older than you and I was in your situation many years ago. Your brother-sister relationship is at a turning point: these romantic feelings can improve it or destroy it. It is up to you both, you have to be very careful.

Hi Maddie, hope you're becoming acquainted with the well-informed members of this forum. Their combined life-experiences is a wealth of hundreds of years of wisdom & personal insight to a deeply intimate life circumstance that often changes people forever, creating permanent memories that mold your core personality.

My own experience is with my mom. We asked each other very basic questions, such as:
How do you want me to refer to you? What do you want from me? How do you want me to want you? & the very pertinent, Where do you want to go from here?

You seem like you're handling it very maturely & with lots of introspection & personal reflection.
I hope your life is enriched by this new frontier of "double love".

Best to you.