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Hello everyone, I’m 37 years old man. I’ve feeling for my step-daughter (she is 21). I don’t know what should I do and my next move. I'm looking chat with others who going through similar situations

Being that she is your step daughter, I’m assuming you are currently married to her mother. Attraction to a young beautiful woman is perfectly normal, but since you are married, probably not wise to pursue.
I have had a sexual attraction toward my sister for the better part of our lives, but since we are both married with our own families, the advice you will receive here will be to not jeopardize your marriage. A lot of people can get hurt and torn apart by such an affair, including your wife and step daughter’s relationship to each other. It’s obvious you love both of these women. Sometimes the best choice to make is not going to be the one that pleases you the most, as I’m sure quite an few of us on this site might know.

If something does occur, however, you can know that this is a place you can come to and most likely receive support without people on here shunning you for it. So good luck, and if anything develops, hopefully everything works out as painlessly as possible

I agree

Mr K, if you are still with her parent, do you have any indication what her parent’s opinion are regarding this? We do welcome non-monogamous people here, but you’re not going to find much support for cheating.

If you’re with her parent and you’re unsure of the parent’s opinions on this matter, some of us might be able to help you find out.

I broke up with her mom from year and half, but we still in connect specially with my step daughter.
I believe we have kind of attraction as she shares a lot of personal topics with me not with her mom and always take my opinion

Mr. K, I think Keith forgot to upgrade your account. I’ll do it now.

Welcome to KS! This is pretty much what it’s like on the inside, too. A soap opera but with your relatives.

Stay safe,
UN

Welcome aboard! We can talk about this more in the member area.

It’s possible this young woman sees you as an easier parental figure to speak with. The longer you were a father figure to her, the more the dynamics will be similar to consang situations.

Whether or not you should even try to change anything, and, if so, how you could find out what she’s wanting from this relationship are things we can discuss in the member area. The “Non-GSA” or “Your Story” sections would be where you can explain more about the background.