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Still figure it out
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Mon 3 Jul 2023 - 5:41
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Greetings,
I am a 31 year old adult daughter to a 77 year old father that I have considered attractive and viewed more than just a relative for many years. We have a wonderful relationship and I'm absolutely terrified of the embarrassment/consequences of what could happen if me expressing this to him backfires. I'm not even sure how to bring it up. I'd also like to add, I've never been abused by him in any way. My feelings for him are genuine. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for having me.

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Mon 3 Jul 2023 - 9:10
Hi, Still, welcome to Kindred Spirits. I’ve upgraded your membership.

I hope you do express your feelings to your father. Just go slowly and carefully, and leave both of you with a graceful way to back out if the conversation becomes awkward, and you’ll be fine.

The “Courting Consanguinamory” page from Keith Pullman’s “Full Marriage Equality” blog might be helpful. http://marriage-equality.blogspot.com/p/blog-page.html

We can continue this conversation in the members-only groups if you’d like. Good luck courting your father!

Stay safe,
UN

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Mon 3 Jul 2023 - 16:06
Thanks for holding a safe space for me here while I figure this out.

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Tue 4 Jul 2023 - 23:34
Welcome aboard!

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Wed 5 Jul 2023 - 6:22
Hope you feel at home

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Sun 9 Jul 2023 - 19:39
Welcome! I'm with my father in a family with benefits situation. Have enjoyed it immensely. Look me up on the Wire app if ya want to chat more and perhaps seek guidance on how to proceed with your dad! @blabla2002 on wire app.

-Jesika

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Mon 10 Jul 2023 - 19:54
Welcome to the place, pal! I am sure some of our peers here may bring some valuable and useful insight about your situation Smile , stay in synthony!
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