Mother son curious

Hi I'm a 42 year old married man and I've felt a sexual connection to my mother all of my adult life. She likes it when i'm affectionate but there is an awkwardness between us when we touch. I love her very much and don't want to feel that there are any boundaries between us.

Hi, Lovingson25, welcome to Kindred Spirits. I’ve upgraded your account.

It’s very sweet that you are still attracted to your mother. Have you spoken with her about your feelings for her?

Peace,
UN

Welcome LovingSon25!

Welcome!

Lovingson25 wrote:Hi I'm a 42 year old married man and I've felt a sexual connection to my mother all of my adult life. She likes it when i'm affectionate but there is an awkwardness between us when we touch. I love her very much and don't want to feel that there are any boundaries between us.

Awkwardness could be sexual tension.

Welcome. I was with my mom for about 5 years, 30 years ago.

i’m curious about my mom. but not brave enough to approach .

A lot of people are in that predicament, Ashan. Some get past it and make the approach. Others stay there all their lives.

Peace,
UN

It is said that mom, is the first love of a son. I know a woman who has said the greatest moment in her life is when her son was born. There are others on here that talk of hints and conversation bits that indicate possibilities could exist with mom.
With my mom and I we were very playful with eachother and very affectionate. My dad was not affectionate so I filled the gap.
There was some moves I made playfully, like unsnapping her bra from behind.
You mentioned you are married. I'm doubtful that your wife would be ok with being with your mom if your wife is a typical woman. I personally think that a special relationship with mom should be as allowed. I've got into debates with people about how I wish our society should not demonize emotional connections with others, same sex or different. My mom and I kept our relationship from my dad, but he eventually found out because she had a thing for risk and wanted to go at it on the living room floor near their door instead of my bedroom on the other side of the house. There was no divorce, they stayed married the rest of their lives.
The older I get, the more I'm ok with family relations even if there's marriage involved w others and the special family relationship is kept from them and others, worded another way, I don't think a relationship with your mom would be cheating. I Might get some flack for that. But we only live once. A special relationship with mom would probabally fly under the radar of the average spouse and other family.
Ramble over.

Olderson1991 -

That's so intriguing. Thanks for sharing. I don't think people realise how fulfilling the experience can be - though with me and my sister it has required a lot of compartmentalisation to avoid jealousies and complications. You've probably mentioned it some where here but how old were you when you and your mum 'took the leap' fully - and what in the world was that like?

I had not been with another woman before her, so she showed me how to touch her. The first time was awkward. Definitely not the "the first time is the best time" bullshit I had heard from others my age. But in time, that sexual connection was quite deep, but also very free. It wasn't in alot of ways like a girlfriend but an extra part of being with mom, like adding another tool in the affection/connection tool box. No hoop jumping thru most of it, hey you wanna? Sure tonight after dad goes to work. Or she would just come in to my room in the middle of the night ready to go. Some of the more fun was romping around family members homes in the middle of the night when we were on vacio t just her and I. Eventually my dad started going with us so that kinda made it too hard to try.

After a while we developed a deeper love, some refer to it as double love, motherly and sexual

thanks. ya I imagine its a completely different dynamic than with a brother / sister. so glad it's been a positive experience for you.

I’m 52 and I’ve been attracted to my mother since I was 11 years old. I’m married and have had lots of girlfriends but she is absolutely my biggest sexual fantasy and the love of my life. I would’ve married her and gotten her pregnant if I could. She’s 72 now and I still want to make love to her. Nothing has ever happened between us and probably never will but I still want to tell her how much I love her and what she has meant to me on the slimmest chance I could give her a lover’s passionate kiss.

MothersLittleHelper wrote:I’m 52 and I’ve been attracted to my mother since I was 11 years old.   I’m married and have had lots of girlfriends but she is absolutely my biggest sexual fantasy and the love of my life.  I would’ve married her and gotten her pregnant if I could.  She’s 72 now and I still want to make love to her.  Nothing has ever happened between us and probably never will but I still want to tell her how much I love her and what she has meant to me on the slimmest chance I could give her a lover’s passionate kiss.

What's holding you back from having a conversation with her?

Fear of being rejected and damaging our relationship.

MothersLittleHelper wrote:Fear of being rejected and damaging our relationship.

I was interested in my grandmother when I hit puberty and enjoyed seeing her around the house naked. She would even be playful and tell me don't look, lol.
I think if I had actually had a conversation w her about my interest later as an adult, I think she would have been interested.

Unfortunately I never had that conversation and she passed away. I regret not having that conversation now that she's gone.

Is your mom very conservative, like church conservative?
Myself and others could offer some suggestions if you share with the group what your relationship looks like. Example are you both affectionate? Do either of you see each other naked? Any suggestive conversations over the years? Flirting?
Any info could be helpful to us.

MothersLittleHelper wrote:Fear of being rejected and damaging our relationship.

I have heard this before, it's way different been rejected by a person that's not related to you, and less damaging since you can always choose to cut communication with them, however if it's your mom, even a sister that's more delicate

She’s religious but not conservative. She was a single mom and I was her oldest of four kids. I saw her naked a lot as a kid. I walked in on her riding my stepdad like a cowgirl when I was eleven. That’s when it started. She was so beautiful, a sex goddess to me. I raided her underwear, I found her vibrator. I also found some incest story porn that I’m sure was her boyfriend’s who later became my stepdad. I’ve always wanted to ask him if he had nudes of my mom. I have loved her so long and we’re all old now.

MothersLittleHelper wrote:She’s religious but not conservative. She was a single mom and I was her oldest of four kids. I saw her naked a lot as a kid. I walked in on her riding my stepdad like a cowgirl when I was eleven. That’s when it started.  She was so beautiful, a sex goddess to me. I raided her underwear, I found her vibrator.  I also found some incest story porn that I’m sure was her boyfriend’s who later became my stepdad. I’ve always wanted to ask him if he had nudes of my mom. I have loved her so long and we’re all old now.

Interesting, sounds like you mom didnt care about been
private you seen her undressed or having intimacy, did she ever mentioned any about that like she saying "sorry you saw me like like that"?

No, I think she thought it was harmless.