Adopted male

Hi all,

40 year old adopted male here. Interested in reading and discussing associated subjects such as GSA.

Cheers

Welcome to the group. Have you reconnected with your birth mom?

Not as of yet. To be honest it's only something I've really given thought to the past year or so. In fact it's probably a bit twisted but the motivation to do so is really only to see what she looks like and possibly sleep with her. Weird I know!

There other discussions on here about that. Some have sexual attraction, some don't.

Hello and welcome! Are you an ally or are your adaptive parents related?

Adopted, my advice to you would be to stay away from GSA. We have had many GSA people here, and in every case I can think of, the relationships were fraught with trouble. Think about it, it’d be like being superglued to a total stranger.

Peace,
UN

Soiler wrote:Hello and welcome! Are you an ally or are your adaptive parents related?

Hello and thankyou.

I'm not sure what you mean, ally to who? Who are we fighting and for what cause?

But no, my adoptive parents are not related.

Unowen17 wrote:Adopted, my advice to you would be to stay away from GSA. We have had many GSA people here, and in every case I can think of, the relationships were fraught with trouble. Think about it, it’d be like being superglued to a total stranger.

Peace,
UN

I can understand what you're saying! Where are the GSA threads to read? Thanks

Soiler wrote:Hello and welcome! Are you an ally or are your adaptive parents related?

If you mean, do I come here with bad intentions? Then I assure that's not the case. More so found this forum whilst searching my situation and what's been on my mind to see if I could get an understanding of others who have maybe experience in such a situation.

An ally means that you don't have a consang relationship, not interested in one personally but you support those that do.

I didn't take from your comment, that you were here w bad intentions.

I’ve upgraded your account, Adopted. I look forward to some interesting discussions.

You’ll have to forgive me for being a bit baffled. Your situation is very unusual — at least in my own experience.

The right place to talk about GSA relationships is in the GSA section, which you should now have access to.

Peace,
UN

Adopted wrote:

Soiler wrote:Hello and welcome! Are you an ally or are your adaptive parents related?

If you mean, do I come here with bad intentions? Then I assure that's not the case. More so found this forum whilst searching my situation and what's been on my mind to see if I could get an understanding of others who have maybe experience in such a situation.

Oh, no I didn't mean that! As the other guy said, an ally is someone who isn't in incestuous relationship yourself, but is only interested and supports it. I was simply asking if your parents were in this kind of relationship, and as you already answered, apparently not. Sorry for the confusion, the question wasn't very well written, lol