Introduction

Hi Im 31. I am not truly experienced. But I have been very attracted to my cousin for a long time and I really believe I love her. When I was 20, we had a very long hug when we were alone and we kissed each other's necks for a litle while but we got nervous and stopped there and have been apprehensive about spending alone time together since... I hate that our attraction has in a way ruined our relationship. I think  about it a lot as i still see her often and just wanted to stop being ashamed and learn how other people feel. I dont want to feel like this has to be weird.

Thank you

Hi, 56, welcome to Kindred Spirits. I’ve upgraded your account.

I hope you and your cousin can find a way to normalize your relationship again. There is nothing wrong with the two of you having feelings for each other, or with acting on those feelings.

Peace,
UN

Thank you, that honestly is really nice to hear.