USERNAMES... PLEASE READ

It has come to my attention that some people are signing up with sexually suggestive usernames. This is inappropriate here. This is a SUPPORT FORUM, it is not a place for jacking off or sexual fantasies, there are plenty of other places for that.

Everyone who has done this should go to their profile and change their username... if this is not done within 48 hours I will delete your account. If you choose to sign up again, please do not choose a lewd username.... oh, and you might want to read the site rules.

Thanks,
Jane

The two users 'john8inches' and 'wellhung' have been given enough time to change their usernames to something more appropriate. They have not done so and therefore I have deleted their accounts.

So I guess "Magnifcent10InchPhallusOfMightAndFury" is out of the question then?

What about "BabyMakingTrowserGorgan?"

"ThunderCockOfLegend?"

"VirginsBane?"  Oh, wait...that one is taken.

"TheCockening?"

"MeatCleaver?"

"TheImpregnator?"

"SistersFunStick?"

All inappropriate. Done?

For now......

Really?

It is not that hard to be part of the Family.
Adjust or leave!
Bright Blessing
Wiccan

For now, incest is associated with porn, so we'll have to deal with this for a while. There are plenty of other places these guys can go. The more distant we are from them, the better.

Well, one of them has reported this thread as 'abuse'... and of course the report goes to me. It basically said:

'fuck off all of you, fuck you deleting my account, yes, fuck you jane fucking doe'

I thought I was being pretty reasonable giving them 2 days to change their usernames to something more suitable. It's not like I had banned them. They are actually still free to sign up again with more suitable usernames. I can understand he might find this annoying, but seriously, he could have sent me a message minus the profanity. I've added the usernames rule to the list of rules that ALL newcomers should read before signing up. I gave 2 days grace because it was my fault for not employing a usernames rule in the first place, I thought that the nature of the forum would put people off signing up with such usernames, as we are clearly a support group. Now the rule IS in place any accounts with such usernames will be deleted immediately.

I think the problem stems from the fact that most other forums have traditionally been both for the fetish/fantasy crowd while simultaneously trying to cater for us too. The two groups do not sit well together because it is impossible for a forum to produce fap material AND to cater to people wanting serious discussions. Threads get hijacked, painfully obvious nonsense gets posted, and people don't get the kind of support they need. That is what we need to avoid, and that is why rules like this are necessary. People who want the fantasies can go to other places that cater to them, this just isn't the right place for them, and they aren't right for this forum. It isn't an insult or personal attack on them, it is just a fact.

Wiccanbiker & Shiro... I think OtherHans is joking with us. We're all very protective of this forum and take our jobs in the community seriously, but we must allow for humor providing that said humor is not insulting or abusive

In any case I think I've made the usernames rule pretty clear and given good reasons for it, but in the first instance I probably would have been better spelling it out rather than it being an implied rule. So yea, I take responsibility on this one.

Jane

Q: What do you call a lie told by a man about his penis?

A: A Phalluscy

Thanks, I'm here all week. Please tip your waitress.

Understood and I watch a lot of gray area taken the last couple of sites. This Witch apologize for otherhand comment. Caught me in an adjusting moment.
Shiro you are living with a Navy girl. Hee hee
Tell her to get a user name.
Wiccan

Don't worry about it Wiccan, a lot of people get a bit sensitive during times of upheaval, and we all had a month with no forum, followed by this one being made and the old one miraculously coming back online! It takes time to adjust to major changes for any community, and a forum change is no small thing... some members still aren't here yet.

Hans is a crackup. Longtime voice of reason when it comes to these relationships.

Jane Doe wrote:Well, one of them has reported this thread as 'abuse'... and of course the report goes to me. It basically said:

'fuck off all of you, fuck you deleting my account, yes, fuck you jane fucking doe'

[snip]

Jane

I was poking around the admin pages and came upon the abuse report, which led me here. The report was for copyright infringement. Didn’t see the copyright for DaddyHasASchlongLikeGodzillas in the US Patent and Trademark Office, though.

The guy that Keith sent packing this morning was pretty uninspired, compared to OtherHans’s creations.

Best,
UN

LOL, thing is about trolls and idiots, they never learn. As a general rule of thumb, it's always a good idea to check out the rules of a new forum BEFORE joining, that way you can readily make up your mind if it's the right place for you or not. Too many people don't do that, and it's a shame really, because two minutes reading could save people a lot of trouble and time. I always read forum rules before I sign up everywhere. I certainly did before I signed up for a star trek forum a while back.