INTRO by tsunami

Hi Everyone. I am over 18 years of age and supportive of you all and this forum.
Every female in my immediate family is very attractive. The things I have thought
of doing would be life changing. Any advice??

Are the female family members you'll be talking about 18 or older?

Good morning, tsunami! Glad you found the forum.

A few things I’d advise:

I think it’s not unusual to be attracted to family members who are below the age of consent. But don’t act or show your feelings toward them until they are of legal age. There are strong legal and ethical reasons for this. It may take great self-restraint if those feelings are strong. Great self-restraint is not a bad thing to have. It’s part of being an adult.

Keith’s and Jane’s blogs already have some excellent articles on when to decide you have a green light to proceed, and how to proceed if you do. Please search for them before doing anything else.

Life-changing is an understatement.

Realize that, if you act and things come to fruition, you may not be able to control your own emotions or the situation. I’ve heard of this happening more than once.

Count the cost. Think about what could go wrong. Think of what could be damaged if it does.

I don’t want to be Dave Downer here, but starting consang relationships can be like playing with nitroglycerine. Learn everything you can before you start.

Good luck — and please answer FME’s question!

Best,
UN

yes, Everyone invilved is well into thier 30's and beyond.
yes I realize and support the laws when it comes to minors.
The situation is about an adoptee, reunited years later.
I am aware of GSA, and believe that one of the females
involved in this situation attempted to direct me to this site
years ago. I am Still trying to figure out the details to this day.
(it was the older site, before it was changed/moved. So if there
are archived messages or posts from years ago, I would love to
see them.

Thanks, tsunami. In that case, I think the admins will approve you for full access.

Don't know whether the content of the old site is still available, or for that matter, even where the old site was or is.

Best,
UN

In which case welcome aboard, I've upgraded your account.

Yes, there was an old version of this site, we had no choice but move because it's servers crashed and of course this meant no forum. At first we thought they were down for maintainence, but as the days, then weeks rolled by we knew we had to find another provider. An ally friend of mine directed me to this provider and I set up this new version, which has now been online since April 2016.

Welcome!

welcome back tsunami ^_^