Hi maybe you can help?

So I'm a little nervous introducing myself but here goes. I'm Celes (not my real name) I posted up a question on reddit a few days ago and someone pointed me here. I was nervous so I had my friend come check you guys out. He is Mr Reese I'll be posting from his place some times. He's the only person I can talk with about this. I'm 21 ( I know on reddit I said I was 18) I think I'm in love with my dad. It's not just a phase it's been a while, and its not GSA I've lived with him since I was 8 (mom abandoned me with him.) So I was hoping I could meet other girls like me. I saw some of the reddits and those are just...smut . I hope I've come to the right place.

okay Celes, you're clear for the forums. Mr reese is already here, if you see him around; thank you for clearing that up beforehand! it could've been confusing later.
we have some threads for people to share their stories; if you like you can share yours there, or read about other people. Maybe it'd help somehow.
take care & let me know if you need anything

Thank you

Welcome to KS, Celes! I think you'll find this forum a very supportive and welcoming place. Glad Mr Reese sent you here.

Best,
UN

Welcome to the forum! You're not alone in how you feel towards your dad, lots of people have been and are in the same situation you're in.

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Welcome to the forums

If you need to talk you can always PM me, I have experience with the feelings you're having. I too fell in love with my father (non-GSA) and we had eight years together on and off.

I'm glad you found us.

Celes, Speaking as the father half of a similar situation, I can tell you only my side of the story. I raised my daughter as a single dad.....father/daughter dances, birds and bees talks, first date, prom, high school heartbreak, I was there for it all. My daughter and I had, what I consider to be, a very open and honest relationship during her entire childhood. Once she was older, she made a few advances toward me that were not father/daughter type and each time we would sit down and have a conversation about why it wasn't right and how she needed a boy her own age to date, fall in love with, marry and have a family....AND NOT HER FATHER!! After several years of a strained relationship and while home from college she crawled in bed with me and it just happened. I was sleeping and when I awoke, there she was and we were not doing father/daughter type stuff. I handled it badly and she cried for days but she finally stopped crying and told me she wanted to talk to me like an adult. We ate dinner and had a grown up conversation. She told me she had always loved me. When she would date boys in high school or college, she only wanted to date me. I was terrified....but also something else. We had many more long talks into the wee hours of the morning before anything else happened. We would go on dates...real dates out of town where no one else knew us. We dated for months before we shared a bed again. Now, several years later, we live as husband and wife in a place where no one knows us from before. We, of course, left behind friends and family to be together but it is the best thing that has ever happened in my life. My daughter/wife, who used to read the forum post with me on the old website, is a well adjusted young lady who is climbing the corporate ladder. Me, I'm just the guy with the hot young wife. I will ask Steph if she would like to respond here as well. Take things slow and good luck.

chrisdridley wrote:Celes, Speaking as the father half of a similar situation, I can tell you only my side of the story. I raised my daughter as a single dad.....father/daughter dances, birds and bees talks, first date, prom, high school heartbreak, I was there for it all. My daughter and I had, what I consider to be, a very open and honest relationship during her entire childhood. Once she was older, she made a few advances toward me that were not father/daughter type and each time we would sit down and have a conversation about why it wasn't right and how she needed a boy her own age to date, fall in love with, marry and have a family....AND NOT HER FATHER!! After several years of a strained relationship and while home from college she crawled in bed with me and it just happened. I was sleeping and when I awoke, there she was and we were not doing father/daughter type stuff. I handled it badly and she cried for days but she finally stopped crying and told me she wanted to talk to me like an adult. We ate dinner and had a grown up conversation. She told me she had always loved me. When she would date boys in high school or college, she only wanted to date me. I was terrified....but also something else. We had many more long talks into the wee hours of the morning before anything else happened. We would go on dates...real dates out of town where no one else knew us. We dated for months before we shared a bed again. Now, several years later, we live as husband and wife in a place where no one knows us from before. We, of course, left behind friends and family to be together but it is the best thing that has ever happened in my life. My daughter/wife, who used to read the forum post with me on the old website, is a well adjusted young lady who is climbing the corporate ladder. Me, I'm just the guy with the hot young wife. I will ask Steph if she would like to respond here as well. Take things slow and good luck.

I would love to hear from her . You two sound like us. I was also raised by my single dad. If you want to take a look at my other threads Id appreciate your insight. A lot of what you just said sounds like my dad.

I'd be glad to offer what insight I can. We have endured the emotional roller coaster that comes with our choices and any way I can help, I'd be glad to.

Chris, that sounds so beautiful... but just for the record (we have to ask everyone), can you confirm that she was over 18 before any sex took place, once you do this I can upgrade your account and grant access to the rest of the forums.

This Stephanie and Yes I was 20.

In which case welcome aboard

Welcome to the forum Chris.

Welcome!

hiya Chris & Stephanie, welcome to the forums! I enjoyed hearing your story, it's nice hearing happy endings. Maybe if Celes's dad is willing to visit us, he could speak with you. It might do him good.

sleepingrain wrote:hiya Chris & Stephanie, welcome to the forums! I enjoyed hearing your story, it's nice hearing happy endings. Maybe if Celes's dad is willing to visit us, he could speak with you. It might do him good.

I would be willing to talk with him if he is receptive. It is a difficult situation to be in for a dad that so few could understand.

[/quote]It is a difficult situation to be in for a dad that so few could understand.[/quote]

This is spot on sooo true...