Introduction: Mother/Son

Hello everyone!
I am glad I found this space with genuine people who are not here expecting pornography.

My mother and I live in different cities. When safe and possible, for five years now, we’ve had a non-GSA “family with benefits” relationship. It all started when, after telling me how proud she felt as a mother, she confessed to be in love with me as a woman. I have been in love with her since perhaps High School, which I confessed in return. That’s how it started. We talked things through and set ground rules before becoming intimate that same day. We are both still married (my father is not sexually active for weight and health reasons) and we keep this as a top secret, ultra private and intimate thing. We are both ok with that, in our mind we don’t feel it’s cheating as our love doesn’t occupy the same space or conflict with how we feel about our marriages... and this has also added a new dimension to our relationship and has improved our mother/son relationship also. We intend to always keep it as a family with benefits relationship without any other plans. I am happy to tell our story in more detail.

I’m in my mid forties and she is in her mid sixties now. Forty one and sixty one respectively when it started.

Hi, Jay, welcome to Kindred Spirits. I’ve upgraded your account.

Congratulations on your love with your mother. And you’re among people here who understand. I wish you many more happy years as lovers, and I hope you enjoy our forum.

Stay safe,
UN

Thank you very much. Happy to be among people who know how profound and overwhelmingly wonderful double love can feel.

Welcome to Kindred Spirits, Jay!

Best wishes!

Welcome aboard!

Jay76 wrote:We are both ok with that, in our mind we don’t feel it’s cheating as our love doesn’t occupy the same space or conflict with how we feel about our marriages

That's how I always imagined it would be in a consanguinamorous relationship. (Have never had one, and my most likely partner, my sister, died years ago.) I've seen others talk about their CA relationships that way too.

Thank you , and welcome.

Hi Jay,

Hello sir and welcome to KS! So glad you found us here and are able to share your delightful story. I always enjoy reading about the paths that bring two together, and was intrigued when I read your feelings blossomed for her in high school. I often look back at my younger years with some regret, wishing I would’ve pursued a relationship with my friend’s mother whom I have adored from afar for many years now.

Would love to hear more on this if you’re willing to share. Success stories are few and far between!

Cheers sir,

- Kirok