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on Mon 6 Jan - 22:14
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Hello, I am a female in my twenties. Last year I found my biological father and fell madly in love. I turned to alcohol to cope. Now I am at risk of losing my job...the only shred of identity I have left. I feel so broke and torn. I feel if he was a stable person I would be able to move on with my life with him but he’s not. He’s an alcoholic and does drugs. He’s not healthy for me. I try blocking him but I miss him so much. I am going to lose the person I looked all my life for. I’m struggling and torn. Has anyone been here?


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on Mon 6 Jan - 22:52
Hi, Twentytwenty,

Welcome to Kindred Spirits. I've upgraded you to full membership so you can see and post in the members-only forums

I'm so sorry that GSA has been so horrible for you. We have many members who understand how soul-wrenching GSA can be, especially when it goes wrong.

You are definitely welcome here. We'll help you if we can.

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on Mon 6 Jan - 22:54
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I just need help navigating this. Thank you!
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on Mon 6 Jan - 22:55
Come on inside and tell us all about it.

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on Tue 7 Jan - 1:24
Hi twentytwenty and thank you for being so forthcoming. I feel we can probably help you. If you'd like saying more, we have a place where we post our story or history. Let us know if there's anything else we can do!
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on Tue 7 Jan - 3:40
Hi TwentyTwenty!

I'm so sorry to hear you're having a rough time. I hope that we can offer some guidance as to how to handle things, and deal with things easier. With that being said, welcome!
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on Tue 7 Jan - 10:47
Hi, twentytwenty,

I debated whether to send you a PM, but decided to follow up again instead. Your intro is so heartbreaking. 

Alcohol is not your friend. I saw what it did to my family and so many others. You’ve seen what it’s doing to your father. I don’t want it to do the same to you. Please don’t try to drink your pain away. It will only make you hurt worse in the end.

I hope you’ll let us be your friends instead. This is as safe a place to talk about your GSA problem as I think you’ll ever find. Please tell us more about your situation in the Your Story or GSA forums. Those are only visible to introduced members. KS is as safe a place for you to talk as we can possibly make it. You’re safe here, and we want to help you.

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