An introduction

Hello everyone.
I am a 40 Y SWM.
I have never had a consang relationship, but many years ago I used to have a major attraction to cousin of mine. She was living with me and my parents for her university studies. We always had very touchy feely games and used to watch movies in the sofa at night, very close to each other. She was in a long distance relationship at the time. Unfortunately I never did anything about it, out of social constraints and shyness, so nothing ever ever came from it.
She then got married and had a life of her own, and we drifted apart. But for many years after that i kept thinking "what if"...

Though my feelings never led to anything, the theme of family love was always something that caught my attention.
Recently I came across this forum and decided to join.
Perhaps you will consider me an ally.

Cheers to you all

Hi, Doc, welcome to Kindred Spirits. I will certainly consider you an ally, and I’ll upgrade your membership in a few minutes.

Sorry things never worked out with your cousin. A lot of us unrequited folks were held back by shyness or fear and wonder, “what if.”

Please tell us in the Allies forum how you believe you’d like to help as an ally.

Stay safe,
UN

Welcome