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troubledspirit
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Sat 6 Nov 2021 - 23:37
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Hi,
An unusual event between me and my mother around a year ago made me develop sexual thoughts about her and led me to believe there could be some chance she would go along with it. At that time I froze and missed the opportunity to develop on the subject with her, thinking it isn't something that happen outside of fiction. But as time pass, I cannot get it out of my head and I will need to sit down with her eventually to get these thoughts out of the way.

Before I do anything I can regret I think here would be a nice place to read others testimonies, or perhaps ask for some outside advice on my situation. This is such a taboo subject, I haven't been able to find anything realistic on this topic anywhere yet.

Thank you!

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Sun 7 Nov 2021 - 3:02
When you say “unusual event” I’m supposing that it was an action by your mom that seemed to be an invitation for further action, not a verbal solicitation. In my case, and in the case of two other guys I’ve spoken with about our experiences, it took a couple cases of touching/exhibitionism by our moms to make us believe that it was actually happening. I was 19 at first contact and clueless to pick up on these tells and almost needed to be bonked over the head to get a move on.

My advice is to remain vigilant for new indicators, to be gentle and loving, to touch frequently, and hug a lot. Hold her often. Things won’t progress from across the room.


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Sun 7 Nov 2021 - 7:51
TroubledSpirit, welcome to KS. How old are you?

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Sun 7 Nov 2021 - 10:52
Troubled Spirit-you are being respectfully cautious, good idea. Doing something like taking in a movie together, or a dinner date without any preconceived requirements. I always suggest that you "escort" her likw a lady and hold her hand as you walk. Sometimes the touch of hands speak louder than voices. All the best brother.

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Mon 8 Nov 2021 - 22:02
Thanks for the advices.
To answer the age question, I'm well into my 20s...

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Tue 9 Nov 2021 - 2:20
Thank you, Troubledspirit. I’ve upgraded your account for full access.

I agree with what Rick Fortune and FamilyFriend have said. Please enjoy our forum.

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Tue 9 Nov 2021 - 20:38
Un- Thanks again for the compliment. After the wonderful life I enjoyed with my mother, I can't help but encourage mothers and sons (as well as all consags) to continue their desire for their love! It may sound like I'm selling it and I am! If you desire your kin, don't waste the passion-become lovers. I'll advocate till I die!

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Tue 9 Nov 2021 - 21:43
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