A little about me and my story

Hello, I'm Tifa and I'm 19 years old. I've been looking around the internet for a while now trying to find chats n forums and I think this one seems to be the best.

I'm trying to make some friends that I can be honest with about my relationship with my dad. We are both trying to make some like minded friends to game with and hang out with and stuff. Anyway, my dad had me when he was quite young and he left not long after. I met him again when I was older and we became inseparable. I absolutely loved him with all my heart and we had so much in common, he was and is my dream man. When I turned 18, I confessed my feelings and he told me he feels the same. We have been by each other's side ever since, we have our own house now and a very chatty cat. I'm so happy but not being about to tell people about us is heartbreaking, I wish I had a few friends that I could talk to and have them be happy for me.

I'm open for messages, so don't be shy

Tifa, welcome to Kindred Spirits. Please confirm that you were 18 or older when you first had sex with your dad.

Peace,
UN

I did say I confessed my feelings when I turned 18, we didn't make love before then.

Quite a personal question, no?

https://ks2016.forumactif.fr/t745-forum-rules-attention-all-newcomers

See rules 7 and 8. KS does not permit any discussion of sex involving minors under age 18. We require new members to verify that where there is any question.

UN

I understand that, obviously I do. As you can see though, no minors were involved. I clearly stated that nothing happened before I turned 18, I never even implied that anything happened before then. You really didn't need to ask such a personal question, especially when I had already told you what you needed to know... I don't know, maybe you could have worded it better? Many couples don't really like divulging details about there sex life but no, mine doesn't involve kids thank you

Apparently, I’ve touched a raw nerve. Puzzles me how, though.

Peace,
UN

Yeah my apologies, I just feel uncomfortable telling strangers about my personal biz, especially people that haven't got the experiences I do... And yeah, of course it's a sore spot I don't wanna be accused of being involved with minors that's super gross and immoral!

Wasn’t accusing, just checking. I’ve upgraded your membership.

Peace,
UN

I understand why UN has to be so careful and I understand why Tifia was offended by such a personal question. Unfortunately a few people ruin it, but there are a lot of good, kind people who can relate to you Tifia I hope this introduction doesn’t spoil it for you. I’m so glad you found happiness with your dad, life as we all know is hard enough and it’s amazing you found it. Others do understand, continued best wishes with him in the future.

No, it didn't spoil anything don't worry! I'm really happy I've found this website, it's really nice to have a place to chat and yes, I do understand that UN has to be cautious with some people.... I can appreciate I was being a bit touchy🥲

Unowen17 wrote:Wasn’t accusing, just checking. I’ve upgraded your membership.

Peace,
UN

Tifa,
They don't want to admit people who were groomed as minors or sexually abused as minors (or similarly doing that to minors) , nor do they want to embellish anything for prurient or erotic usage by others. Hence the seemingly abrupt clinical questioning.

Apparently your father and you met as biologically related but socially unconnected adults. Which is definitely okay!

Glad that your relationship is going well and that you two have a feline fuzzball.

welcome,
cyberdolph

Yeah... Like I said, I do understand. I can see what you guys mean about some people on here so don't worry.. I know how to works