Introduction and a Cry for Help...

I'm in love with my (non-identical) twin brother. We are both male and 20 yo. I tried everything to get his attention: standing naked next to him, petting him, observe him while he was naked, etc. But after all of this he doesn't even seem to realise I love him, and I'm getting desperate because he might move soon. What can I do to change this situation and make that relationship I dream about happen?

Welcome to the group. I'd say try openly talking about your interest with him.

Welcome to Kindred Spirits, Di. I’ve upgraded your account.

I’d echo Olderson’s advice. If your brother is about to move, then you’ll have to decide whether to confess to him or just let it drop.

Peace,
UN

Thanks for the advice people but what can I do if this idea of confessing my love to him goes very wrong?

It’s a common concern, Di. I’d say don’t focus on the worst case. Instead, just take it slowly and carefully and give both of yourselves room to back away if the conversation becomes awkward. An initial awkward moment doesn’t mean it’s going to stay awkward.

Take it in stages. Introduce to him the idea that some brothers love each other romantically. Ask him whether he thinks it’s okay.

Beyond that, just do your best and be prepared to live with the results. Adults own the consequences of their actions, whatever they are.

Peace,
UN