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It's only in the last few years that I've allowed myself to fully acknowledge the true depth of my feelings for my father. I dream of not only sharing a bed with him, but of going out on dates, of dancing barefoot on a beach, cuddling under the covers on a rainy day and all those other schmoopy, blatantly romantic things I scoffed at for so long (and, in truth, I find no personal value in them with anyone other than him, hence the reason I genuinely thought myself aromantic). My father doesn't know about my sexual and romantic attraction to him and I'm too afraid of potentially losing him to open up when it comes to this particular topic.
I'd love to be able to talk to other people in similar situations and find comfort in a like-minded community.
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I think the chance of estranging your father is actually pretty low, if you approach him patiently and empathically. We can talk it over some more in the Non-GSA forum. There are some father-daughter couples around, but none in your exact situation. But we’ll do what we can for you.
Every now and then, an ally can say a few words, the right words, and change someone’s life for the better.
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There are ways to delicately explore the possibilities with your father so as to not scare him. The odds that approaching him gently will hurt your relationship are extremely remote. Hopefully, we can help you so that whether he can reciprocate or not, you won’t be left regretting having never tried to find out.
As the others have said, we can discuss this further in the member areas.
I blog to support the right of all adults to share love, sex, residence, and marriage: http://marriage-equality.blogspot.com
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